Welcome to Our Blog

WELCOME TO OUR BLOG

We are a mother, Molly, a daughter, Angela, as well as a granddaughter, Ashlyn, who will be adding input from the fresh perspective of a teenager.

We just started this new blog and we have a major interest in YOU !!! We are focused on your health and well-being, your wealth and prosperity, and your lifestyle. In other words,  our interest is in your MIND, your BELIEFS and your CHOICES. Between mother and daughter, we’ve had 11 children as well as some very tough pregnancies. Ashlyn is 15 years turning 16 years this June 2017 and she is the only female in my entire collection and array of 13 completely diverse living grandchildren.

MIND = THOUGHTS + FEELINGS

THOUGHTS + FEELINGS = LIFE

THOUGHTS + FEELINGS = YOUR LIFE

YOUR THOUGHTS  + YOUR FEELINGS = MANIFEST YOUR LIFE

YOUR THOUGHTS  AND  YOUR FEELINGS  BECOME YOUR LIFE !!!

Yes, of course, we have immense interest in health and prosperity, which go hand-in-hand, or perhaps hand-in-glove is a better way of saying what I truly mean because 

Without health, is prosperity even possible?

We are absolutely, unequivocally, unchangeably and unwaveringly PRO-LIFE !!!!!!!! No questions, no doubts, always and forever the same, everlastingly. WE ARE PRO-LIFE !!!!!!!! And … we decided this long, long ago after much thought and consideration.

Insofar as we are concerned, our CHOICE was already made when we became pregnant, at different times, of course. Making up one’s mind ahead of time is quite the relief, the greatest relief of all, leaving us able to totally FOCUS on building, creating and loving the growing child rather than writhing in the agony and turmoil of what is called “choice” in our "politically correct" society, nation and world.

Thank you, God, that all this was a conscious CHOICE and that we were never caught off guard by pregnancy. We never had "choices" explained to us by Planned Parenthood. We were taught that 

God is the only REALITY. 

And for us, this is true, so our choices were and are easy, almost nonexistent “in the world”. From before birth, we were already saved, rescued.

One of the most challenging games in my entire LIFE is and always has been just to speak up. Somehow I felt safer being very quiet and remaining very still. I reached a crossroads, however, when I inquired about joining the Women’s March following the recent Presidential Trump-Pence Election and was told pointedly that we were not allowed to attend unless we were “pro-choice”.

I choose not to take this personally. We are women, to be sure, but we have never been and cannot ever be “pro-choice” unless choosing LIFE is on the table !!!

Why don’t folks realize that carrying a baby to full term and that choosing to give 

LIFE is a valid CHOICE !!!!!!!!

To carry a child-baby to full term, then choosing to give birth, a live birth, is one of the most noble, most selfless, most womanly choices any woman can make, for it changes the mother's life forever. Doing so requires tremendous sacrifice, whether she keeps the child or arranges for adoption. It is a truly a sacrifice only a mother can make. It requires true love, the TRUE LOVE of one’s MOTHER.

Oh, I’ve heard all the “medical knowledge” jargon of doctors, nurses and healthcare professionals:

“It’s just a mucus plug; we just suction out a bit of mucus 
and we’re done.”

“It isn’t really alive until birth.” 

“It isn’t really alive until the first breath is taken.”

And more...ad nauseum

Except that all these statements simply are not true. Life begins at conception and the purpose for the mother is to provide safety, peace and love, as well as a loving place for the growing child who requires her assistance at the very least through the entire pregnancy and delivery.

What we now have in America and in our world are entire generations of young women and girls who have been told an out and out, outrageous lie !!! They have been led down a primrose path and taught to believe the fallacy that their babies are part of the mother's body, when, in fact, babies merely begin within their mothers' bodies, but they are completely separate and only very briefly require assistance from their mothers to sustain fragile developing life.

From the point of birth, every baby is a completely independent entity and free to go its separate way. Adoption is ALWAYS a viable option. In fact, many mothers and couples are eagerly awaiting a baby or a child !!!

Subtle deception. But deception nonetheless, resulting in millions, perhaps billions of deaths by planned abortion. Merely on a physical level, this is gruesome and a great evil. Seen from the spiritual planes, however, it is worse than heartbreaking. Every child that "dies" goes to a very special place in the Heavens where they do grow up after receiving treatment from Jesus. Each is treated on an individual basis with unconditional LOVE. And each one remains eternally connected to the physical mother ... and loves her unconditionally, for unconditional is all they have ever learned, all they have ever been taught.

“Bringing a child into the world, instead of conferring certain parental rights, entails the supreme responsibility of human existence."

The Urantia Book

This week takes the cake !!! Yes, it does. Angela works as a dental hygienist.  She has six children ranging in age from 15 years down to just turned 2 years this month. Angela's husband, Cristhian, is working about 100 miles from home. He comes home on weekends only. So Angela has the extra duty of dropping all the children at their four different and distant-from-one-another schools each morning. She must be at work by 7 AM.

As Angela arrived at her work today, she was met by two women, the office manager, and the assistant office manager, who had a document all ready for her to sign. She had missed work last week with Evan, her youngest, the 2-year-old. She had been to the ER three times already with him, as well as twice with Ashlyn, her eldest. Her week had been extremely busy as well as hectic, her sleep definitely broken.

Enter the two managers waving a document for Angela to sign. It was an admission of GUILT for being off work and for "not stepping up", whatever that means.

Angela refused. As she told them, her first priority is her children. The job is secondary. And at least she didn't miss work because she had gone out drinking and thrown up all day, as one of her co-workers had just done. But there was no discussion of a write-up for the co-worker. There was only snide laughter as if the woman's stunt had been cute, a popularity decision in her favor.

As Angela explained to them, why was there an attempt to penalize her for taking time off to be at home and at the doctors' with sick children, when another woman was praised for drinking and a pat on the back for missing work?

Political correctness

POLITICAL CORRECTNESS 

This same week, I made the mistake of going into a bar with a friend, my first time in a bar in at least 40 years. I drank water with lemon slices, while he drank what he referred to as long-necks. These turned out to be beer. We had shrimp specials, which definitely do not even come close to my standards. And ... he continually and repeatedly reminded me that he wished I would drink. 

"I KNOW you are tempted."

And I finally said, "Not at all. I'm bored. I can't imagine that I've wasted my precious time to sit here and watch you drink. It will never happen again." I’ve deliberately left out the not-so-nice parts.

It's okay with me if he makes that CHOICE; after all, it is his choice to make. But why is he finding fault with me because I don't join him? Why isn't it okay for us to just be different? And why am I supposed to follow you? 

I don't expect you, you manly thing, to follow me, a female. But now, because you make an issue of it and you won't even allow me to sit here in peace and quiet to eat these crummy, awful shrimp, not only are we truly different, WE ARE SEPARATE. 

WE ARE SEPARATE ENTITIES.

WE ARE SEPARATE BEINGS.

I may have attempted out of habit to feel sadness for half-a-second; it just didn't work !!! I began to feel ELATED !!!!!!!! I'm feeling what I truly feel. I'm being who I TRULY AM !!! THIS IS THE REAL ME !!!

So ... now I AM acknowledging SELF, MY SELF, and it feels WONDROUS, AWESOME, AMAZING, and I AM TRULY, TRULY, TRULY OKAY !!!!!!!!

So...for me, this is the process and this process is COMPLETE !!!

To conclude, 40 years ago when I joined the LDS Church, the main body of the now 16-million-member church, having attended a Southern Baptist Church in Mississippi all my life, knowing nothing else, I went into my Bishop’s office in California one Sunday for some guidance about a point of scripture I could find nothing on.

The scriptures were and are incredibly clear about most offenses. Clarity is good, but one thing I had searched for and found nothing about, was abortion. That bothered me immensely.

Whereas the church is and always has been very pointedly clear about most sexual activities, let’s say, about being homosexual or the sexual activity of women, for instance, and whereas homosexuality is condemned, as is the enjoyment and pleasure of women, as I understand, with my very limited convert understanding; only CHASTITY is accepted and only chastity is condoned by God. Absolutely no mention is made of abortion.

I asked why.

I was told, by my Beloved Bishop, that he had no idea…but in his opinion, I should come to my own conclusion because there was at that time no scriptural guidance that he was aware of.

I recall very briefly wondering about the life of the growing child and why, since God is the creator and the keeper of LIFE, this had been left out of the Holy Scriptures. This did not make any sense to me. After all, scores of scriptures refer to homosexuality as well as to male sexuality. Yet there was no guidance at all about WOMEN’S SEXUALITY EXCEPT FOR CHASTITY, and there was absolutely not one spare reference to ABORTION.

Much later, after many years, it finally dawned on me that it was referred to after all, as “the shedding of INNOCENT BLOOD", for what could possibly be more innocent than an UNBORN CHILD? UNBORN CHILDREN.

SO … when I speak of a very special place in Heaven for these children, when I think of their innocence, when I ask God and Jesus what provisions are made for them, the most innocent of all beings, please understand that these rank #1 in Heaven, in the Heavens, and they ALWAYS, every time, receive incredibly special attention and infinitely tender treatment.

Well, THE GREATEST OF THESE IS LOVE!!! In today's world, and hopefully not for long, all who are not grounded in LOVE, SPIRITUAL LOVE, DIVINE LOVE, cease to be.

Yes, it truly is that simple. 

WHAT ARE WE WAITING FOR!!!!!!!!

Molly Silfies, Angela and Ashlyn 

HERE'S TO YOUR HEALTH !!!!!!!!

In the interest of publishing this post, I AM choosing to publish before all changes are made, such as pictures, about me/us pages and other items that I do not intend to complete prior to simply...publishing. These can be completed later. Thank you for your understanding since my fingers are in many pies, so to speak, other blogs, autism advocacy, my awesome SELF CARE, my incredibly pleasurable LOVE LIFE, and LOVING MY OWN LIFE!!!!!!!! CIAO!!! :::)))